Firstly, let me be clear about something, I am NOT a matchmaker. People ask me this all the time. Also, I'm NOT a madam or escort service of any kind, just in case that needs clarification.
So, now that we’re on the same page, let’s get back to this Wingman thing. I’m here for YOU. I’m here to help you meet and attract great high-value women. And with me you’ll have an unfair advantage over the other guys because you’ll have the benefit of first hand knowledge from a woman.
You can be confident walking into situations because you'll have a deeper understanding of women’s behavior and signals and how to trigger positive responses in them.
I’ve always been thought of as a guy’s girl.
A champion of men.
Easy to talk to, fun to hang out with, feminine without being too girly. A woman who gets it.
As you're getting to know me, the best thing you can do is check out some of my videos, read some of my blogs posts, and see if you like my style. There’s lots of free valuable advice you can start using to your advantage today!
I want every one of my programs, videos, blog posts and virtual interactions to make you feel like you’ve got your wingman by your side whenever you want. I want you to feel like I’m right there with you, whispering female secrets in your ear. Helping you figure out the next move, what to say, what to text, what her behavior means; whatever you need to do to help get you closer to the woman you've been dreaming of.
A couple of other things ‘About Me’:
I grew up in New York City, but now I live in Venice Beach California and I love it. People always ask me which I like better, but I hate making choices so I won’t…I love them both. I’ve always been a beach girl so it wasn’t a hard adjustment.
I live with my three dogs Tony, Oliver and George; you will definitely catch a glimpse of them in one of my videos. I love to cook, eat and travel. Love Game of Thrones, love The Crown, never watched The Sopranos.
But this isn’t really about me is it? It's ABOUT YOU!
…Apart from these awesome facts, you’re probably wondering…
Can this woman give me the tools to sucessfully meet, date and create a meaningful relationship with the high-value woman I've been dreaming of?
Can she really help me get MY ‘Game’ together?
Is she worth my time, attention and money?
For many readers, my answer is NO. Here’s why:
I CANNOT help you if you’re into the Pick-Up Artist or PUA world of dating.
Would Vesper say the same about you? (The disposable pleasures bit.)
No judgments on the guys in the Pick-Up Artist world, but as a woman, I don’t agree with many of the methodologies and practices involved in that scene because in the long run most high-value women find them to be manipulative, corny and unappealing. It’s a numbers game…about the least sexy thing there is.
Translation, it’s a Turn Off.
So why would I subscribe to a system that most women are turned off by when I’m trying to help you meet and date women turned on by you?
Let’s just say it’s not my scene. And if it’s yours, then this probably isn’t the place for you.
The PUA world can be very appealing to guys who want to be successful with women, but lack confidence in themselves or their abilities to ‘score chicks’. In this world, the holy grail is measured by how many numbers a guy can score in one night, which hopefully translates into as much sex as possible.
The problem comes in when there’s so much emphasis put on the front-end stuff, the game (different from my definition of ‘Game’ mentioned above) of meeting and bedding women. Not nearly enough attention is given to going to the deeper levels of a guys’ inner game. This is where true success with women is measured.
Too much emphasis is put on the superficial details:
How to look
How to talk
How much money do you have
How to manipulate yourself into a situation to get a girl’s attention
And vice versa, all the attention weighs heavily on the surface of the woman du jour…:
How does she look
How hot is she
How fast can you get her into bed
I get it. Guys want sex. Well guess what? Women want sex too! We all want sex!!
Sex is awesome but, at the end of the day if there isn’t something else going on between two people it gets old really fast and everyone ends up feeling weird and empty and scummy and used. So, if you’re only looking to see how many notches you can accrue on the old bed post each month, I’m not your girl.
If you’re only looking for “The Easy Way”, then I don’t want to help you.
I’m not trying to be rude, but it’s important you understand this. I can help you, I just won’t. I’m capable of it, but I refuse to do it.
Because when a guy asks me, “What’s the easiest way to get a girl to go out with me”, what I’m really hearing is, “I’m not fully invested in my long-term success with women, and therefore, I’m not all that concerned with her desire to have long-term success with men”.
And that really translates to, “I don’t want to put in the work to be good at dating and relationships”.
Look, I’m gonna give it to you straight, everyone wants their love-life to be effortless and easy, but here’s the truth:
Successful Dating and Relationships are HARD WORK.
The more work you put in, the more effortless and easy they become. See how that works?
In every other significant area of our lives, hard work in the pursuit of success is praised. It’s valued and respected. You wouldn't be here if you didn't already know this to be true. You wouldn't be where you are without stepping up to the challenge of putting in hard work and that's why you're so successful in your career.
So why should your personal life be any different? Men know better than anyone that if you don’t have to work for it, then you don’t really value what you’re after, which makes it meaningless. So, you have to be willing to put in the HARD WORK on yourself and your skills. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be fun. I'll give you both.
If you’re not willing to trust and listen to a woman then you’re not going to enjoy my stuff.
That’s right, I’m not a man. Just want to make sure we’re clear on that.
But here’s why I’m telling you this.
Clearly, a woman created this program, so it comes from the female POV and it’s important to understand the intrinsic value in having access to that unique perspective. We all have challenges and struggles with the opposite sex and the tendency is to go to our like-minded, same-sex friends for support and guidance.
This is a mistake.
They’re your friends. They don’t want to make things weird and awkward with some conversation about why you’re always striking out with the ladies. Add to that the very real likelihood that they don’t even know what they’re talking about half the time.
They’re guys! They can’t possibly understand how a woman works better than a woman. It’s like the blind leading the blind out there.
By all means, go to your bros for beers and bonding, but…
When you need to know what a woman is thinking When you need a woman’s signals translated for you When you need to know how to play the next move with a woman just right...
then you need to talk to a woman; a woman who knows what she’s talking about.
When my clients need the TRUTH ABOUT WOMEN, they COME TO ME. Anything else is a waste of time.
Are you still here? Good.
So now here’s a little of what you can expect from me…
FREE actionable strategies and tactics you can use to find, approach and start dating great women right now.
Women’s signals and behavior decoded and explained for you for FREE.
Game plans that will give you confidence in approaching women without the fear of rejection, also FREE.
How will you know if my strategies and content are any good?
The smartest thing to do is get my material, apply what you can and see how it’s going for you. Keep up with my videos and blogs, as the majority of my topics and trainings come from real guys with real struggles asking smart questions.
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Please feel free to email me with your story, questions or challenges. I love hearing from you and I will do my best to respond directly. Hey, one of your questions may even end up being answered in a video or blog post (anonymously, of course), so what have you got to lose?
But wait, there’s more!
Look Out For My New On-Line Modular Course launching Spring of 2017!
This will be the most comprehensive men’s dating course ever released and it promises to change the way men become successful with women forever!!
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Now let’s have some fun and get to work!